Xmas Update

Due to that Colorado blizzard, we're not flying out until Christmas day. In the meantime, I have the cramps from hell, and have to go to BWI to get my refund. @#$!~

Question for the Marrieds!

How does one go about properly researching wedding stuff? I've bought one Modern Brides magazine and looked at some others and been to brides.com and am mostly baffled and overwhelmed. Anyone have any suggestions on good books, sites, etc?

I want to get some research in cos hey, vacation. Also I really don't have too much idea what's out there or what costs what.

Stuff I DO know:

--NEED inexpensive where possible

--LIKE the idea of a Renaissance theme

--definitely no priest/church involved; possibly have ceremony performed by friend with internet certificate or just a mutual exchange of vows

--REALLY LIKE the idea of outside, either first day of spring or summer solstice.

What say you all?